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Relationship Trust - 10 Reasons Why I Am TrustedRelationship Trust - 10 Reasons Why I Am Trusted Why am I trusted? My girlfriend tells me she trusts me because I have not done anything to make it so she should not. She tells me if she did not trust me we probably we would not be together. That's how...

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How To Get Passion In A Relationship

Posted by JM | Posted in Relationship Advice | Posted on 04-06-2010

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Getting passion into a relationship that you feel has lost it is not an easy thing to do. Many people feel that if they do not have passion anymore in their relationship that it is time to give up. Here are some things to try before breaking things off with your partner.

1. Think About the Positives

What do you like about your relationship and why was it that you were so attracted to your partner in the first place?

Often times when people in are in relationships they often forget about all the little things. How does your partner treat you?

2. When You See Your Partner Do You Melt?

Every time you see your partner you don’t have to have the butterflies that you did when you first started to date him/her. It is just important that you make them feel special and wanted at all times.

3. Kiss With Passion

When you kiss your partner make sure to mean it. Don’t just do it because it is what is the normal thing to do. Make your partner really feel like he/she is wanted each and every time you kiss.

4. Talk About Your Partner

Relationship Trust – 10 Reasons Why I Am Trusted

Posted by JM | Posted in Relationship Advice | Posted on 04-02-2010

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Why am I trusted? My girlfriend tells me she trusts me because I have not done anything to make it so she should not. She tells me if she did not trust me we probably we would not be together. That’s how I feel as well.

Trust is one of the biggest reasons our relationship works. If you feel like you don’t trust the person you are with you are really missing out on one of the best parts of being with someone.

Just letting them know who are, what you are doing, and what you are going to do next, and completely trusting them with this information is awesome. The sooner you start that better it will be.

10 Reasons Why Am I Trusted?

  1. Ordinarily, I don’t do things out of the blue.
  2. When I do something different I communicate it with my girlfriend.
  3. When I say something, it will match what I mean it to say.
  4. I am competent in the things that I do.
  5. I don’t keep any secrets.
  6. I let my needs be known.
  7. She knows who I am.
  8. I know how to say “No.”
  9. I communicate with her calmly.
  10. We try new things together.

These 10 reasons are reasonable for anyone to practice in their relationship, and it’s some advice I would advise anyone that is in a relationship to use. I am now going to go into a little more detail for these 10 Reasons why I am trusted.

Relationship Trust (1) – Ordinarily, I don’t do things out of the blue.

It’s not that I am predictable because I certainly am not. I’m just saying that that I’m not ever trying to hide anything from my partner. I try to let her know everything that is going on in my life, and she tries to let me know everything that is going on in hers.

Sometimes we neglect to tell each other what we are doing but it is fairly minimal, and now that I think about it a little more we actually don’t keep anything from each other. Why should we? We trust each other.

Relationship Trust (2) – When I do something different I communicate it with my girlfriend.

If I am going to do something I communicate it with my partner. Communication is a big key when it comes to trusting someone. For example, on a normal day I usually don’t go out to a bar with my friends, so when I do I let my girlfriend know about it, and usually invite her to come along too.

Having time away from your partner is good for every relationship and both my girlfriend and I believe this strongly. In order for us to feel good when the other person is out we need to trust each other.

Relationship Trust (3) – When I say something, it will match what I mean it to say.

Are You Falling In Love? Here Are The Signs

Posted by JM | Posted in Dating Advice | Posted on 03-11-2010

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Falling In LoveSince I think most of us know when you are infatuated with or in love with someone I will make this short and to the point.  Being in love with someone is a feeling that is way different then just being attracted to someone.  It can happen at any time: The moment you meet someone, after you have seen the person multiple times, or it can actually happen after some casual meetings or even from a friendship.  Love is way stronger then just being attracted to someone, and at the time that you are in love with someone, only one person can make you feel the way that you do.

  • Can you be in love with two people at once? Not truly in love.
  • What is a good “sign” to know if you’re in love? Blushing when they come near you, or even a rise of temperature in your body.
  • How do you feel when you are in love? You feel great! You both may feel a strong bond of energy when you are with one another.

Being in love is exciting, fun, and probably the best feeling someone can ever feel.  That is why people get so upset when they break up with someone that they were previously in love with.   Sometimes when people break up with someone that they were in love with do everything they can in order to get love back with someone else.  Some people are actually addicted to falling in love!  Those people find new relationships right away, straight after breaking up with someone.  I have met people like that and naturally they do not seem to ever fall in true love.