Throughout a relationship you will be asked to do something you are not going to want to do. Or maybe just something that you absolutely would not do if you were not with your partner. I promise you – it will happen.

So what do you do? You have two choices.

1. To go
2. Or, to not go. That is the question…

If you have been reading this blog for a while you would understand the significance of “having time apart” you do not have to do everything that your partner likes to do. So if it is something that your partner just likes to do than it is not so much a big deal if you do not go.

However, if your partner loves doing something, like for me going to concerts – one of my favorite things to do I would pretty much expect my partner to feel my passion for going and want to enjoy the experience of going to concerts with me.

Getting passion into a relationship that you feel has lost it is not an easy thing to do. Many people feel that if they do not have passion anymore in their relationship that it is time to give up. Here are some things to try before breaking things off with your partner.

1. Think About the Positives

What do you like about your relationship and why was it that you were so attracted to your partner in the first place?

Often times when people in are in relationships they often forget about all the little things. How does your partner treat you?

2. When You See Your Partner Do You Melt?

Every time you see your partner you don’t have to have the butterflies that you did when you first started to date him/her. It is just important that you make them feel special and wanted at all times.

3. Kiss With Passion

When you kiss your partner make sure to mean it. Don’t just do it because it is what is the normal thing to do. Make your partner really feel like he/she is wanted each and every time you kiss.

4. Talk About Your Partner

What’s the most important part about being in an emotional and physical relationship?

Every single person who is in a relationship spends an infinite amount of time thinking about their lover – their happiness, and their love.

Just imagine how disappointed you would be if you went out and bought your partner dinner, only to end up getting in an argument. A relationship with a small amount of passion is like going to the zoo just to find out there are no animals.

So here are 5 ways to get and keep passion into your relationship that will thrill your partner and make them want you more then ever before.

1. Talk About Them

Passion in a relationship is often overlooked when you are away from one another. It needs to be cherished at all times. When a partner talks about another when they are not around it is one of the best things for someone to do.

2. Song Lyrics

My girlfriend and I currently have opposite work schedules so when we get to spend a day off together like we did yesterday it is really nice. We both were looking forward to the day off together all week, so I knew that it was going to be really special.

We wanted to get the most out of the time spent with each other so we did a few things that we have been wanting to do with each other for a while.

We woke up late

I know it doesn’t sound like much, but everyday my girlfriend has to wake up between 5:30 and 6:00am every morning because she has to be at work by 7:00am every day. If she is spending the night at my house that means I wake up at the same time that she does because she sets an alarm. If she is spending the night at her house, she gets ready and will usually call me on the way to work, which wakes me up a little before 7:00am every day.

So the both of us wake up early on a regular basis. It was nice to wake up and not have to do anything. We actually did make a plan to do something but the weather man said it was going to rain so we decided to just do things as they came on our day off.

Yesterday’s Time Line: What did we do?

You are in love with a girl and you are afraid to say it!  I wrote this post to explain to people how to say I love you for the first time.  For some of you it is really easy to do, but for many others, it is really difficult.  Telling someone that you love them is one of the most important things you can ever do.

I have put together 5 steps of which you can follow to help you get these 3 words off your chest.

1. Define Love (How To Tell A Girl I Love You)

Have you talked to her about the L word? Find out from herself what she thinks about it.  Gather hints from her to see if she is having those feelings for you.

My definition of love is to have feelings and passion for someone that words can not explain.  You can use my definition if she asks you what you think love is but I recommend that you come up with your own.  Chances are that you already have a definition of your own if you are feeling those feelings in your relationship.

If you absolutely still feel weird  about telling her you love her then ask her friends.  Do not do this unless you must because her friends (if they are good friends) will probably tell her everything that you say.

Ask her friends what your girlfriend thinks of the word love.  Ask them what she thinks it means and if your girlfriend has said it in the past.  It’s a really important word and a special feeling.  Essentially you would not be trying to tell her friends that you are going to tell their friend that you love her, you are basically just trying to gather information.

Knowing all of this information is great but if you are in love, you are not going to change how you feel. Even if you are getting bad vibes from the situation. Its time to get these three words off of your chest and let her know how you feel!

2. Find A Place And A Time (How To Tell A Girl I Love You)