Getting passion into a relationship that you feel has lost it is not an easy thing to do. Many people feel that if they do not have passion anymore in their relationship that it is time to give up. Here are some things to try before breaking things off with your partner.

1. Think About the Positives

What do you like about your relationship and why was it that you were so attracted to your partner in the first place?

Often times when people in are in relationships they often forget about all the little things. How does your partner treat you?

2. When You See Your Partner Do You Melt?

Every time you see your partner you don’t have to have the butterflies that you did when you first started to date him/her. It is just important that you make them feel special and wanted at all times.

3. Kiss With Passion

When you kiss your partner make sure to mean it. Don’t just do it because it is what is the normal thing to do. Make your partner really feel like he/she is wanted each and every time you kiss.

4. Talk About Your Partner

Since in previous posts I have talked about my girlfriend and experiences that I have learned from my ex-girlfriends I thought I would introduce you to my girlfriend. I haven’t asked her if I could write her name on my blog or not so her name is just going to remain anonymous.

We were both single

Hey, what do you know, two people that are single started dating.

You might be thinking “Why did JM just write that down? Of course you two were single.”

No actually, this is not always the case. Fairly regularly I am meeting people that meet each other while they are dating other people. I don’t necessarily think that is healthy but it does work for some people. For the two of us, my girlfriend and I, we were both single.

We were friends

Where ever you go in this world there are going to be some crazy desperate people.

Alex Vasquez, (yannibmbr) author of the blog, The Urban Dater wrote a post about a crazy text conversation that his buddy Rod had with this girl Melina. It was so interesting that I thought I would write a little post on my blog about it.

Well truthfully it was not so interesting as it was frustrating to read because Melina is so psycho, but I guess that is what made it so interesting. It really reminded me of yesterdays post, 3 Reasons Why Insecurities Are Difficult To Handle In A Relationship.

So the post on The Urban Dater is about how Rod meets Melina when he goes out, and how Melina is so desperately trying to get a hold of Rod afterwards. Rod is a busy guy and politely tells Melina that he will talk to her when he is not so busy.  This is not good enough for Melina though. She insists that she needs to talk now! She is really infatuated with Rod who she just met you know.

This is a really comical post and I urge you to read it.  I don’t want to spoil it for you though. You can read the original post on The Urban Dater’s blog it’s called: The Anatomy Of A Crazy Text Message.

I think that he thought the conversation of texts was over between the two so he published that, but Melina I guess was not quite done. So he had to write a second post which he just wrote yesterday. This blog post is called Anatomy Of A Crazy Text… Continued.

I urge you to check them out if you are looking for a laugh. My guess is Melina is still not even done bothering Rod and that there will probably be another post on The Urban Dater about crazy texts from Melina in the near future.

For those of you reading this who are not seeing anyone and are sick of being single I’m going to tell you something really important. Ready? Well here it is. You will not and can not go places with the intention of trying to find someone that you can date.

I know you are thinking that you have some questions that you wish you could ask me huh? Well, let me clarify this because I know what you are most likely thinking. You are probably thinking “wait if I can’t be looking for someone when I am out, how I am going to find someone?” The answer is…

With Patience

I know that there are some of you out there who have been in a long term relationships that can’t stand the thought of not being with someone. So when your relationship of years and years breaks up you find someone a couple of weeks later that you are then attached to. Kind of like a replacement.

I’m actually guilty of this. When I broke up with my ex about 7 months ago, just about 2 weeks after this I started dating another girl. I did not know it would last as long as it has because we are still together. But I am really happy it did because she makes me really happy. I got really lucky. Nonetheless, the reason why we have been in such a solid and healthy relationship with each other is because we started dating naturally.

Find Each Other Naturally