How are you supposed to know if you are kissing the way your partner likes to be kissed unless they actually tell you?

Passionate Kissing Tips

Kiss the person you are kissing with everything that you have. If you hold anything back then it won’t be a really good kiss.

Not every time you kiss someone is going to be some long and passionate kiss but your partner actually can get a good feeling about how you feel about them through your kisses.  It’s another one of those times of which you are in control of the outcome. So don’t waste your chances away.

There are no specific rules or guidelines to passionately kiss someone.

Kiss Timing

It can be a hard and meaningful kiss, or it can be a soft and gentle kiss. Both are good, it is just about the timing.

Timing is absolutely everything, especially when you want to just smack a kiss right in someone’s face.

So make sure that you know when it’s time not to… Just as it is really nice to give someone a kiss passionately it is also sometimes nice to not be so forward about it.

Keep Your Partner Wanting More

Sometimes all you need to do is give someone a kiss on the cheek. A kiss on the cheek can be passionate as well. Maybe when you kiss your partner you whisper something into his/her’s ears saying “I love you” or “I’ll be thinking about you all day” something of that nature.

Saying these kinds of things before, during, or after a kiss is a good way to get the fire burning in any relationship that you are in!

Another simple tip for passionate kissing is to not just stick your tongue down the other person’s mouth. It’s really rude, and you might as well of not kissed the person at all.

People that are really crazy kissers like this can be seen as someone that is trying too hard.

The best way that I have found to kiss someone passionately is to just be myself.

If you have any comments on this please leave them below!

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Wouldn’t you rather your partner come on to you then come on to someone else? It is okay to tell your partner that you are too tired to have sex every once in a while but if you find yourself constantly doing it, you may have a little problem. Your partner may look else where to satisfy his needs. That’s for another article for another day, but for right now I am going to go over a polite way to tell your partner you are too tired for sex.

Explain Your Day

When you are feeling as though you are too tired to have sex with your lover the best way to go about it is to start by explaining your day. Tell your partner what you did. Maybe you worked a really long day with no breaks, or maybe you just came home from a long car ride and all you want to do is go to sleep.

No matter what the situation is you need to sell it to your partner. I say sell it because that is what you are doing. Think about it. What would you be thinking if you were turned down?

I’m sure you would feel defended, shut down, and maybe a little uncomfortable. This is exactly what your partner is feeling, and this is why it is so important to try to make your partner not feel this way.

Reestablish Your Connection

Tell your partner how you feel about your relationship and how you still feel for your him/her. That not having sex at that particular moment has nothing to do with the fact that you still want your partner all of the time. It has nothing to do with the fact that you love each other. And it has nothing to do with the way your partner looks because obviously you are extremely attracted to one another because that is why you are together!

I know you are thinking that you should not have to tell your partner this when you do not want to have sex. You probably think that your partner should just assume all of these things because of all the time you have spent with one another.

But you really do. Here is why. Your partner needs this reassurance. The reason you are not having sex with your partner is simply because you are too tired and not for any other reason at all. Communicate this with your partner as much as you can before you go to sleep. I know you get tired, but your partner is worth this little conversation believe me.

Make It Positive

After you tell your partner you do not want to have sex because you are too tired, tell your partner that you really want him/her and that the first chance you get that you will. It is just that you are simply too tired to at that moment.

Maybe you can say after work tomorrow we will. Then tell your partner that you will be looking forward to it all day. When you are at work call your partner and tell him/her that you are looking forward to when when you get off so you can have sex. You can even just text message your partner this.

Remember that your partner is with you because he/she chooses to be. At any time your partner can decide that you are not the right person for him/her so if you really want to make your partner happy you need to go the extra mile by putting in this type of effort.

Declining your partner sex can really affect a relationship if you do not go about it the right. I hope that this post helps some of you that have been there. Been too tired to have sex when your partner really wants to.

Please make comments below to add some more to this article if you have any more ideas or suggestions. I am looking forward to your feedback!

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Being away from a lover is difficult because of many reasons but among the top of those reasons lies the fact that they both miss each so much. If you would like to read more about my feelings about long distance relationships read my article, “Five Reasons Why Long Distance Relationships Usually Do Not Work.”

There are only a few things one can do to make himself or herself feel better. To name a few, calling them, looking at pictures, or reading little things about love. Some people also enjoy reading quotes about long distance relationships in order to make them feel like they are not alone in their loneliness. I have put together a collection of what I believe are the best long distance love quotes below:

Long Distance Love Quotes

1. “Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.” (Thomas Fuller)
2. “The simple lack of her is more to me than others presence. ” (Edward Thomas)
3. “Absence is to love as wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small and kindles the great.” (Roger de Bussy-Rabutin)
4. “Can miles truly separate you from friends? If you want to be with someone you love, are not you already there?” (Richard Bach)
5. “Love is missing someone whenever you are apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you are close in heart.” (Kay Knudsen)
6. “In true love the smallest distance is too great, and the greatest distance can be bridged.” (Hans Nouwens)
7. “That farewell kiss which resembles greeting, that last glance of love which becomes the sharpest pang of sorrow.” (George Eliot)
8. “Here in my heart, that is where you will be; you will be with me, here in my heart. No distance can keep us apart, long as you are here in my heart.” (Diane Warren)
9. “Constant togetherness is fine, but only for Siamese twins.” (Victoria Billings)
10. “Any time not spent on love is wasted.” (Torquato Tasso)

That is the collection of long distance love quotes that I have come up with, of which I think are of the best out there. Generally time apart in a relationship makes the heart grow fonder. Since this is the case, a lot of time spent in a long distance relationship is spent missing each other and thinking about each other.

Being away from a lover for a long period of time can be lonely. These love quotes can hopefully give some comfort to people with this loneliness.

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You might have been having sex with your partner for years, everyday going at it day after day and night after night. When you finally start to talk dirty to one another and you receive a great reaction from your partner you will probably move on to think about what else you can do to spice things up in the future. For now though, before you can look towards the future you have to start talking dirty, and know what to say so you do not embarrass yourself.

I started to talk dirty with a girlfriend of mine back in about 2006 and at the time it was a pretty big deal for me. I had just gotten out of a long three year relationship with a girl and decided to jump right back into the dating scene once again. So I decided I was just going to do whatever I wanted and not hold anything back.  She moved during the relationship, my car broke down, she did not have a job for a while.

Lots of things happened when we were dating. We both invested lots of time and energy with each other. Eventually it became time to move on because we both knew that we were not the ones for each other. There were many strong lessons which I learned during that relationship. One of the biggest ones was the knowledge I had gained about sex, and the importance of passion by talking dirty during sex.

The funny thing was that I did not really think about how we talked dirty to each other so consistently until after we stopped dating. It had become so routine that it was just part of my life. One day it dawned on me – How and why did I start talking dirty with her?

How To Start Talking Dirty

I’m going to recount the processes I went through to start talking dirty. By no means should you consider what I did as hard and fast rules but they should give you some guidelines. Remember that there are many ways you can go about starting to talk dirty in a relationship.

When Is It A Good Time To Start Talking Dirty?

It is a good time to start talking dirty when you want to take your sexual relationship to the next level. Simple answer really. I know, that doesn’t help when you are having sex and you want to whisper something dirty in your partners ear and you do not know what to do. You are thinking you do not want to do it the wrong way especially at the expense of embarrassing yourself and possibly ruining your love life all together. It just seems a little bit out of the ordinary for you to start doing after so many years of you not. That’s what my friends told me when I told them they should start to talk dirty with their girlfriends.

Friend: “You started talking dirty with your girl?”

Me: “Yeah.”

Friend: “I wish I could do that with my girlfriend but we have been dating so long it would just be weird to start doing it, you know? What would you suggest?”

Me: “Just to do it. If you think about it, you really do not have anything to lose.  Doesn’t your girlfriend want you to do that stuff with her anyways.  I mean, she would much rather you do that with her than with someone else. You should use that angle if she thinks it is awkward. Which I guarantee she won’t anyways.”

Friend: “Well I guess I’ll give it a try (friend looked kind of hesitant still).”

As with most things in a relationship, it’s hard to determine when it is a good time to start talking dirty. What you really need to consider is what makes you happy and if it will make you happier.

My advice for all of you is to take baby steps. This applies for both men and women I’m just going to write it from a guys perspective because well I am a guy.

1. Start by whispering things you want her to know.
2. Tell her how nice it feels when she shaves her legs while you are having sex.
3. Tell her how good her hair smells.
4. Tell her how good she feels.

From there start getting creative about how good she feels.  I think you are starting to get the picture.  Hearing this stuff from my partner is awesome, if your partner is not telling you this stuff regularly maybe you should start doing it and maybe it will trigger something in your partner to start doing it as well. Just give it a try.

Other questions may arise about talking dirty:

1. How much is too much?
2. How loud is too loud?
3. Where do I draw a line?

How Much Is Too Much?

The only time it gets to be too much is when your partner tells you not to do something.  Which personally I have never had happen to me with anyone that I have dated.

Actually it seemed more like the more I talked dirty to them the more they liked it.  I believe that just about every girl or guy would tell you the same.  With me, when my girlfriend talks dirty to me I love it.  It turns me on so much.

How Loud Is Too Loud?

You can never have sex too loud! The louder you get with each other the more your partner will feel comfortable with you.

The only way you can be too loud during sex is if you have people in the house with you because it could get to be kind of rude.  Especially for people that do not have good sex.  They tend to get bothered, mostly I think out of jealousy because they do not have good sex, nonetheless keep it down for them.  Also be mindful of your neighbors.  Especially if you have thin windows of which they would be able to hear you easily if they were to walk by.

Where Do I Draw The Line?

Talking dirty could be as simple as saying “I love you” super loud when you are having sex while also it can be “I like it when you do this” or “do this faster,” “do it this slower.”

The beauty about this is that there is no line where you have to worry about stepping over. No boundaries at all. This is between you and your partner and how much passion you want to show them during times of intimacy.

After The Dirty Talking

After you and your partner finish and you look into each others eyes. A new kind of passion will come out of the two of you. You will feel good about yourself, your partner, and your life, and your partner will be sharing those same feelings about you.

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