Since in previous posts I have talked about my girlfriend and experiences that I have learned from my ex-girlfriends I thought I would introduce you to my girlfriend. I haven’t asked her if I could write her name on my blog or not so her name is just going to remain anonymous.

We were both single

Hey, what do you know, two people that are single started dating.

You might be thinking “Why did JM just write that down? Of course you two were single.”

No actually, this is not always the case. Fairly regularly I am meeting people that meet each other while they are dating other people. I don’t necessarily think that is healthy but it does work for some people. For the two of us, my girlfriend and I, we were both single.

We were friends

Before we really thought about dating each other my girlfriend and I were friends. So we had some stuff in common. For one, both of us had jobs of which we had to supervise other employees. We liked talking about things that our employees did that would aggravate us, and see what the other person would say. We actually still do this to this day.

The other thing is that back when we were just friends we used to talk about previous relationships that we had with other people.

One night we got together.

I don’t know what it was that sparked it but one night my friend at the time (my girlfriend now) wanted to go out, and I was going out already with another group of friends of mine to a bar. So I invited her to come. She had never met these friends of mine before

She met me at my house and we drove together to pick up one of the guys I was going to the bar with. Then we drove to the bar. On the way to the bar my friend and her were talking about how they really liked watching porn for some reason. I really do not know how they got into talking about that.

So I joined into the conversation talking about how my ex girlfriend did not like watching porn because it made her feel insecure. If you didn’t read my last post it is about girls and their insecurity issues and it goes on by giving examples of how my ex was really insecure.

My friend and my girlfriend (not yet though) thought this was really funny and did not understand it.

So we got to the bar and I spent most of the time hanging out with the girl. We were just talking and drinking and having a good time.

We left the bar a little after midnight and we drove back to my house. We were having a really good time with each other but I wasn’t going to invite her in even though I wanted to.  I realized there was a special connection between us during that night.

So I just dropped her off at her car, gave her a hug goodbye and told her that we should hangout again soon. She seemed really happy about that and then she left. I then went inside.

Literally like 5 minutes after she left my house she wrote me a text message on her drive home and we had a conversation. This is how it went.

Girl: I really wanted to kiss you when I left.

Me: Me too, but I wasn’t sure that you wanted me too. (I really was but I was just trying to play it cool)

Girl: Can we hangout again soon?

Me: Absolutely.

It went something like that. I’m not sure what the exact words in the texts were because they are long gone out of my phone because this was a good almost seven months ago!

So I spent the next couple of days excited to see her again. When we did see each other, I took her to a restaurant/bar near the beach and we just talked and had a couple of drinks. Afterward we took a walk on the beach together and we were still just talking. Then out of no where she just started kissing me. Right there on the beach. Ever since then we have been dating. That is what inspired me to write the post about getting lucky and that’s how my girlfriend and I started dating.

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by, JM

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